“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand, we listen to reply.”

-Bryant McGill

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful parts of us.”

- David Richo

Michael D. Menichiello

Welcome.

With years of experience as a therapist, acclaimed author, and award-winning producer based in the dynamic city of New York, my commitment to providing steadfast guidance and support to individuals of all ages is unwavering. Grounded in objectivity and impartiality, my approach enables me to provide constructive feedback, even if it may not align with your perspective. My areas of expertise are wide-ranging and diverse, encompassing topics such as anger management, passive-aggressive behavior, couples therapy, addiction, LGBTQ issues, and depression/anxiety. Through my extensive knowledge and compassionate demeanor, I am dedicated to helping every one of my clients attain optimal emotional wellness and lead fulfilling lives.

“The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no one recipe for living that suits all cases.”

- Carl Jung

 

My specialties in Therapy.

My specialties include depression, anxiety, bipolar, grief/loss relationship issues in addition to addictions and dependency, dual diagnosis, LGBTQ issues as well as those suffering through the addiction of someone they love. My approach is to truly listen to you and to see the world as you see it, feel it and experience it; not how I want you too.

 
 
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Depression.

Depression can show itself in many forms. Sometimes depression can manifest itself as a feeling of being under water, down, helpless, sad, hopeless and uncertain at times. It could be a change in circumstances or a period of adjustment. In therapy you will learn what is behind, or causing, your depression, along with coping skills to better your life.

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Life-Coping Skills.

Sometimes we aren’t taught how to cope with life; how to take the hardships that life can bring. Coping skills are activities, thoughts, and reactions to life. Living a healthy life involves developing coping skills to help alleviate stress, bring joy and happiness into our lives. In therapy you’ll not only identify coping skills but also how to maintain them under stress.

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Addiction.

Addiction and substance abuse, are very difficult subjects for most people to understand unless they are addicted, or love someone who is. In therapy you will learn that your addiction doesn’t define you as a person; it is a part of you that needs to be accepted and addressed. If you’re a family member of someone who struggles with addiction it is important for you to receive help as well.

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Anger Management.

Anger is a normal and healthy, emotion but it can also cause a great deal of harm. What you will also learn is that it is also a secondary emotion. It is not the first emotion we feel. It is a reaction to a feeling. The work in anger management is examining the cause(s) of your anger by identifying the first emotion(s) that we feel. The key is to express your feelings safely and appropriately without causing harm to yourself or that of your loved ones.

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Couples Therapy.

Relationships take hard work, compromise, empathy and compassion. There is an emotional intimacy between couples that when broken, or weakened, can cause issues. Effective communication in any relationship is vital. Problems arise when we feel that we can’t, or don’t, communicate our feelings. In couples therapy you will learn how to better communicate with your partner through active listening techniques and assertiveness.

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Self-Esteem Issues.

Self-esteem is how we truly feel about ourselves. A person with low self-esteem can sometimes feel that they lack value, worth, and confidence. A person with a good sense of self-esteem on the other hand, feels confident, worthy, valuable, and cherished. In pscyho-therapy, you will learn that self-esteem is learned; not given. You have to earn self-love; it’s not something you can buy, sell, trade, or be given. Only you can learn how to love and respect yourself.

 

Get started with your therapy, today.

When the other person is hurting, confused, troubled, anxious, alienated, terrified; or when he or she is doubtful of self-worth, uncertain as to identity, then understanding is called for. The gentle and sensitive companionship of an empathic stance… provides illumination and healing. In such situations deep understanding is, I believe, the most precious gift one can give to another.

- Carl Rogers

“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.”

- Carl Rogers

Visit. Contact. Book.

Michael Menichiello NCC, LMHC, CASAC
21 Old Main Street Suite 204
Fishkill, NY 12524

Hours
Monday–Saturday
09:00am – 7:30pm

Phone
(845) 901-0333

 
 

Location #1

Michael Menichiello LMHC, CASAC
21 Old Main Street Suite 204
Fishkill, NY 12524

 

Location #2

363 West 30th Street
11th Floor
New York, NY 10001

 

Michael Menichiello LMHC, CASAC